Dear Lord, my marriage needs healing and restoration. I ask that you would forgive me and my spouse of any selfishness and pride. Please show me my sins and give me the grace to ask my spouse for forgiveness in these areas. Please do the same for him/her. Give us the desire to want to keep working on our marriage. Your Word tells us that whatever you have put together no man can separate. Lord, help us to work with you and not against you. Give us the desire to not want to separate. Help us to lay down our rights. Help us to stop being focused on what our needs may be and begin to focus on what you desire for us. Help us to both get back on the same page. Lord, restore to us the love we both felt when we first met. Rekindle the flames of passion, desire, serving and giving. I now recognize that Satan would love to destroy our marriage. I rebuke Satan off of my marriage in Jesus name. I determine now that I am in this for the long haul. My spouse and I made vows for a life time – not just for when we feel like it. I determine today that I will not break my vows. We are a team. Lord, teach us how to love, how to serve and how to give of ourselves. My love for my spouse is not big enough to make this marriage work – I ask that it would be you loving ___________ through me. In Jesus name I pray. amen
I would encourage you to pray this prayer out loud at least once a day. Please read all my posts on Fasting and Prayer, Spiritual Warfare and Marriage. Beloved friend, I am praying God will heal and restore your marriage.